Sunday, August 14, 2011

Boy Problems?

I know what it's like to have boy problems. It's a problem every girl has. I get asked what should I do? when a girl likes a guy but doesn't know how to ask him out. I got this. Here are a few scenarios that some girls are faced with:

1. You like him but he has a girlfriend. Don't go and try to steal him away from her. Just be patient and have an open mind. Sometimes the one you want isn't the one for you.

2. You like him but not sure if he like you. Talk to him. Get to know him better. If you are shy, you have to get over it. Guys like girls who speak up and who aren't wicked quiet. Don't be too loud and aggressive. After a while, you have to decide if you still like him or if you want to date him. If you decide you want to date him, go for it. Walk up to him (when you two are both alone) and say to him, "Hey, do you want to go out?" If he says yes, great! If not, just say, "Ok. Then can we still be friends?" Don't worry. It's better to have loved and lost to then have never loved at all.

3. You like him but he doesn't notice you. Give him a reason to notice you. Not in a bad way, but be more social and talk to him. Get to know him. Become friends with him.

4. You like him but you two are friends. Keep it in the friend zone for now. Find out if he likes anyone else. If not, go for it.

5. He likes you but you don't like him. Don't be mean. Just nicely tell him that you don't have feelings like that for him. Ask to just be friends. No one can make you date anyone.

6. You like him but he likes your best friend. Don't get into a fight with your friend and don't try to steal him. Tell her your happy for her and wish her the best. If things don't work out for them, calmly tell her you have feelings for him.

7. You like more then one guy. Get to know each guy. Then decide which one you want to date.

8. You have never had a boyfriend before and you want one. Never just get a boyfriend just to have one. You want to date someone you actually like for who they are.

If you want you can leave me a comment or message and I'll write back to you and try and help you. ;) Hope this helped.

3 comments:

  1. Um... I dont, um, really... have any boy problems.

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  2. I love how your blog is all like blue, and then when I comment it's just like "blue blue blue RED blue blue blue" hahahaha

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  3. hahah wow someone had a big bowl of extra special today.

    (Nicole adds that we're all special. especially olivia)

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